For Carmen--A new beginning--A new journey: A busy but uneventful day

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

A busy but uneventful day

Here is Gail camping with her family but I am not sure where it was. I was thinking of this kind of scene when I made camping reservations the other day and I was thinking how I will so miss Gail when I pack for our family camping in July. She just did everything so perfect and enjoyed it so much. I won't even have her to cuddle and cozy in the pickup if it gets cold at night. I can see already that I have many more "firsts" to experience in the months ahead.
Today was busy. Six guys were here at 6 AM for our weekly meditations which are always very good. Then Jerry and I went for breakfast and I had a camp meeting here tonight. Between those events I got 72 squares of flowers and veggies planted and a 4 mile walk in and enjoyed soup for dinner with Cynthia and Mike. The weather was just perfect. I still have a hard time justifying the time it takes to go for a walk but I do know it is good for me and important. After our camp meeting tonight I wanted to sit and talk to Gail about the camp things ahead of us----can't do that now so will have to go solo on some of the things. The program directors are so so great and experienced I perhaps would not have to do much but I like to think I need to do some things. Can you believe we are now planning the 33rd edition of Servant Camp!!!! I am not sure I am that old.
I was encouraged that today went well for me, that is two days straight. I would give anything or do anything to have Gail at my side-----life would be so much fuller and richer and meaningful but I will do my best to continue on and live my life in a way that gives Glory to God and honor to Gail.
I think I may be about ready to venture into my wood shop if this weather keeps up. I did spent a bit of time out there yesterday but it was chilly yet.
Tomorrow I hope to make the final decisions on the monument and order it. I will see if I have enough courage to make that decison to put my name on that cold hard stone!

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The first reading at Gail's funeral September 18, 2009

I know of no one who fit this better than Gail

Proverbs 31: 10-31
A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good, not harm.
all the days of her life.
She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
She gets up while it is still dark;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.
She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
She sets about her work vigorously:
her arms are strong for her tasks.
She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her;
Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all."
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
Give her the reward she has earned,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

Well done good and faithful servant, your praise is much and your reward is to be with God forever.

Our Story

Our story begin in 1951, when Carmen was 4 and Gail was 5! We met as our parents were at a camera club. Fast forward--Carmen begin to attend grade school in town in 1957, the same school that Gail went to. Fast forward--We had our first date in the winter of 1964 in Gail's senior year of high school. Again--we were married June 1st of 1968. We moved to St. Paul in October of 1977 and lived at 2094 Niles Ave until Gail's death September 14 of 2009.
Gail first breast cancer was found in October of 2003. After surgery, chemo, radiation and infusions for a year she felt well and we lived life in our normal mode. Carmen retired in June of 2007 and shortly after that we quit doing the paper route as well. In the fall of 2007 we went on our dream vacation. We camped for 7 weeks in Prince Edward Island and Nova Scotia and in the New England states. Sleeping in our truck and eating over an open fire we felt that we had experienced heaven. Then in January of 2008 we spent 3 weeks in Hawaii with friends and again had so much fun. In the fall of 2008 we did much work on the outside of the house and we were so excited to enter 2009 with big plans and dreams. In January Gail was diagnosed with new cancer. For the next 7 1/2 months we prayed, changed our life style, laughed and cried often. As the end of Gail's life drew near she was peaceful and family cared for her at home until she met Jesus. It was a journey that was wonderful, exciting, blessed, full of life and full of love but of course it was too short. Gail is so missed but I know she is in a better place so my journey must continue on without my true love.
I enter a new decade as the "I" that I never wanted to be but I have hope. Hope of things not experienced and hope that life will again, in 2010, become something that I look forward to each morning. My hope is based on our Lord who gives all, who is all and who gives love to all who believe. I enter this new decade with so many questions and so few answers but with faith that all will be well.

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Tuesday, March 2, 2010

A busy but uneventful day

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The first reading at Gail's funeral September 18, 2009

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